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How to Deal with the Behavior and Tantrums of the Toddlers Part 2
Move your Kid to the Safer Place
Observe the situation closely when your kid is cranky. If he is overreacting show much and start throwing the surrounding things. Move your kid from that place to the other safer place. Because there is a risk if some other kids or person get injured from the behavior of your kid. Similarly, at home, separate the kid who is showing anger from his siblings to save them all. Few kids are furious and they start hitting themselves in such situations. Hold your kid strongly, so they don’t hit himself, throw himself against the wall. Hold him until their mood becomes normal otherwise the kid will create a mess for you.
Respond Wisely when the kid Finish the Tantrum
When your kid is over with the tantrum, the next move you do should be good enough. Talk politely with the kid instead of scolding him. Otherwise, you get in trouble again. Give them affection and show them that you are not angry with them anymore. But it does not mean you start defeating yourself in front of your kid. And when the kid finishes with drama, you bring them the thing they are creating the mess. But praise them that they finish the mess they created. If you don’t go to your kid and give him love after their tantrum is finished. They become upset. Random thoughts came into the kid’s mind that their parents did not love them and did not care for them. Talk politely and develop patience in their personality. When they starting learning patience, everything starts getting normal.
Talk to Child Expert
If there is a need and you are tired of your kid’s behavior and nothing works well then it is time to consult a good Psychiatrist. It is needed by you and your kid too. There are reasons behind the excessive reaction from the kid. They are the people who will help you out dealing with this problem. The child’s behavior is maybe due to some physical discomfort. Many times it happens that kid is going through any chronic pain and discomfort and could not able to tell you and start showing tantrums or become cranky. Being a parent if you fail to deal with the kid then it is necessary to get a bit of advice from a medical expert. I am sure you will find a solution to the problem.
Distract your Kid
It is the best way to deal with the tantrum. We can easily distract the kids. When we try to give them options, with the little effort they get agreed. As a parent, you should know about the likes and dislikes of the kid. Use their choices as a tool to deal with the kid’s tantrum. When the kid is angry give them certain options of their choice. Distract them with their previous favorite toy or give them food of their choice. Use your creativity in dealing with your kid.
Praise your Kid
It is not good always to get angry with kids and scolding them all the time. It also makes them cranky and stubborn. Praise your kid for the positive things they have in their personality. Give them good comments when they do something. They get attached to you and do not react furiously. When you make this habit, you develop positivity in kid and the kid start losing the bad habits.