If people don’t have peace and leisure in their life, it will become tough to survive in the world. No one has perfect and Ideal life. Problems are everywhere. No one is completely happy or sad. These phases are the two sides of the pages. When you turn the side the other phase starts. Life is a combination of happiness and sadness. The important thing is how we are surviving the situations. It is our thinking of how we respond to certain situations. Learn a few things and make rules for yourself. Life is easily sorted in this way. If you deserve to be happy and think the same for the others. If you want forgiveness from someone, then forgive others too. In the cycle of life, we often come across unexpected and harsh phases. Those incidents will happen to us about which we are sensitive and not ready to face all this on ourselves. If sadness comes, it doesn’t mean at we forget the happiness and quit to be happy in the future. Despite blaming yourself and burdening your mind all the time, try to move on and let go of things. Letting things go is not easy. The more difficult time you pass in your life, the more difficult is to move on. But always remember you need yourself. you are the only one who can heal yourself. Healing is not an instant process, it will develop with time. But if you distract your mind from the healing process, you can do it. Nothing is impossible. It seems in bad times that happiness will never come and life will remain messy and this perception sticks in our mind.  The moment you decide to move on is your turning point. Decision making is difficult only once. When you make your brain, trust me half of the job is done. I will help you by stating a few things that how to forgive people and start moving towards a good and happy life. This piece of writing helps you how to start your healing process and what are those magical steps leads you to the personal healing process.

Why Forgiveness is Difficult and What is the Importance of Forgiveness?

Anger and stubbornness are one of the most difficult emotions to overcome. Getting yourself out of your anger phase is most important. If you learn to manage your anger, then life starts becoming simple. I have seen many people in my surrounding who thinks that letting off their anger and not forgiving is an act of good revenge and by doing this they will get peace of heart and mind. And honestly, it is not easy to forgive the one who pushes you in difficulty and give you pain. It is common thinking in our society if someone did wrong they will have to suffer. If he /she makes us suffer then they should suffer too. But I think if they will even go through pain, it will not give us happiness and will not bring back the good times. Our ambition and goal should be to make ourselves happy. If something bad happens just forgive the other, relax your mind, free your brain from hatred and anger and start to forget the bad events. Forgive others for yourself. It will lower your burden. The hurt and wounds will give you pain and leave the feeling of bitterness, resentment, and anger. We feel like victims and lock ourselves in the prison of emotions and hurt. This feeling stops us moving forward. Without forgiving, you cannot move towards the next phase.  Forgiveness and forgetting are connected. When you forgive others you simply decide to exclude the negativity from your life. Living with negative emotions and negative events will only give you negative vibes.  Forgiveness also has tremendous Medical Effects. I experienced that stress will make you medically unfit. Your brain becomes weak and the immune system will not able to fight with diseases. Forgive others and make yourself free and live happily according to your new goals and targets.