Problems in married life is a real threat. We always see the perfect wedding stories in movies and create fantasies. But the reality is different. If you are not trying to resolve the conflict in the family, it leads to serious decisions. Of course, it is a challenging task to live in a different atmosphere.  Don’t raise your expectation much high while getting married. It looks charming but it is a huge responsibility. It looks easy in movies but the reality is different. Because of this perception, couples have many conflicts and they could not make up their marriage. If both individuals sacrifice equally, they built a strong and healthy relationship and set an example for others. Let us discuss few marriage problems that we came across in real life.

Distribute the House Chores

It is not the responsibility of one person to do all the work. The common issue came between couples when one person does nothing, and the other is burdened with responsibilities. It is a common culture that women do all the house chores. But if your spouse is doing a job, it becomes difficult for her to do both tasks. In this case, both the partners are equally responsible for the work inside and outside the home. Similarly, women could not force her husband to cook in the kitchen after coming back from the job at night. To resolve the issue, distribute the work with each other consent and live happily.

Different Moods and Habits

It is another big trigger that causes problems in married life. In arranged marriages, this problem is comparatively high. Lack of understanding, different natures, mood, and daily life habits cause the differences between the couple. Personality difference is a huge problem and it leads to divorce in many cases. If both the partners are rigid then they cannot live in the same place. One has to show some flexibility to save the relation. Love and Communication can resolve many problems.

Boredom in Relation

When two individuals get married, they are full time responsible for each other’s entertainment. Everything seems exciting in new days of marriage but later on, everything vanishes. Most marriage issue ends up because they lack excitement and fun. Boredom leads to stress which boosts up conflict and problems created. Gift your partner and take them on a dinner date. It refreshes the relationship. It reminds me of the good time that was spent together.

Abusive Relationship

Respect is supreme than any emotion. A relationship runs without love but cannot continue without respect. Abuse is of many types. Physical abuse, mental and emotional abuse. If the partner is abusing, you in front of others and did not give you respect in front of others. Tortures you at home and do violence. Such a relation could not run for a long time. In this case, the best option to keep a distance from your relationship and think about separation.

Religious Beliefs

If you are in a relationship with different religious beliefs the relationship is complicated and there are clear chances of family differences and fights. For example, “a young boy falls in love with the beautiful girl and they have different religious beliefs, and they get married. When they start living together they came across differences in every little matter, they fight on every matter”. One should always think about the little points when they are getting married. Take a wise decision. Otherwise, life will become difficult.

Don’t Dictate Other Half

A relation can run smoothly only if both individuals have the freedom to living. If a husband starts imposing his desires, likes and dislikes on the wife. Similarly, the wife also should not impose her desire on him and trying to change him. Rather than changing each other, increase acceptance in yourself, and accept your partner in their real appearance. Don’t do force marriage but when you get married accept it completely from the heart.