When we forgive someone we become free, our mind will also free. Our focus is shifted to how we will live life in upcoming years. What should be our plan to avoid such incidents we have gone through in past. Your soul needs happiness. When you stop caring too much, your life becomes easy. Forgiveness is an act of courage and bravery. Not everyone has the heart to forgive and let off things. But for living a leisurely life it is necessary. Remember one thing weak people never forgive, those who are strong only they can do this courage.

Let’s discuss a few points that help you in your goal to forgive and live happily.

Make a Connection with yourself

The very first thing is to build a strong relationship with yourself. Clear your mind and thoughts. Think about the present and future. Cherish the moment you are living right now. Focus on yourself and stop blaming others. No one is responsible for bad events. Everything happens for a reason. Good or bad incidents give you a lesson. Bad incidents make you learn more and clear your brain and thoughts. When you feel down, take out a paper and pen and starting writing whatever comes in your mind. It will clear your brain. And you find the solution to your problems. Spare some time for yourself, go out for walking and jogging, wander at God Creation, and see nature. You feel relaxed and lively. If your stress is chronic then also consider the option of getting the medical advice.

Forget About Past

Make yourself understand that gone is gone. You can’t stick to one thing all the time. Release the bad vibes and think about your present. The biggest mistake we do is to carry our past with ourselves. We did not have an idea of how much this weighs and letting us down. If you throw off your burden, you can better run in the race of life. Our past will make us blind and we are not able to see the beauty and happiness around us. The only thing we are getting from our past is painful. Let off the pain and start living happily. Give worth to yourself. You deserve a better version of yourself. You deserve good mental health.

Take Initiative for Yourself

Take a step forward and start searching for a good activity for yourself. Polish your skills and make yourself busy in daily activities. Spend your energy by doing work. Do little activities. Start writing stories, quote the daily events that you see daily in your surroundings. Make yourself strong and don’t become a victim. The moment you decide to move on, onward from the second you are not a victim, you are a survivor. Stop feeling uneasy and suspicious in front of others. Stay strong and don’t give anyone a chance to make you feel down.

Be Thankful to the lessons of your Life

Always be thankful to your life. Good and Bad events come one after the other. But every time it gives a different lesson. You become more strong and competent in life. From every difficulty, you come out to be stronger. These events are part of our growth and develop a sense of Decision making. Dark times are the door to the good times. I know many people, who came out to be great influencers and motivational speakers after experiencing bad things. You can also become one by following these few steps in your life. Your life becomes easy and you are free from pain. Your thinking and perceptions change gradually and the only thing that left in you is love and happiness. You will start feeling peace and leisure in your life. The energy left in you is positive. Work on yourself. You turned out to be a star.