Conflicts are everywhere. Depending upon the personal interests of the people conflicts exist in families. Conflicts cannot be root out from society but they can be minimized. The best way to remove the conflicts of society is to address the causes and then make a possible way to solve these issues. 

Let’s discuss the causes of family conflicts.

When different people live in the same place there is a 90% chance that conflict will occur. It is due to the different mindsets, age groups, likes and dislikes, and personal thinking approach. Conflicts are present between spouses, between parents and children, between brothers and sisters, in short in every relation associated with the person. Conflict is of different type

• Conflict may occur when two persons have different views and thoughts
• The conflict between husband-wife is maybe on raising the kid in two different styles.
• Approach to think about societal conflict occur between parents and children.
• Excess of modernization and making the other person feel outdated.
• Not giving the required respect to other members of the family
• Money is also a major cause in family conflict
• A huge number of conflicts occur in the distribution of property among the family members.
• Conflict occurs if the sister and daughters did not get their rights.
• Conflict is maybe if someone did not get the freedom of speech in the family matters.
• In many families, some youngsters change their spiritual believes and they have a conflict with their family and parents on those beliefs.
• If a person is so obsessed with itself, he/she will become selfish and does not obey the family system and here conflict arises.
• Jealously among the family increases the conflict.
• If the parent’s flow is on a particular kid and ignores the other kids, there is conflict arises in the family.
• Unequal distribution of love and care arise the conflict.
• If the husband and wife have completely different backgrounds, there will be less mutual understanding and conflicts occur.
• Too much independence on one side arises the conflict in the family.

Solutions of the Conflicts occur in the family.

There could be many ways to resolve the conflict. It is not good for a family to increase the issues rather than always do struggle to solve the issues. Listing down some possible solutions that will be going to cater to all the issues between the family conflicts and reduce them to a minimum.

• It is human nature that in case of conflicts we start judging the opponent and create a negative illustration of that person in our mind. We will consider only our view and does not listen to the other person. We change the general reflections of the thoughts.
• In Islam, there is a proper ratio of the property and hair of the daughters. If we follow the distribution given in Islam there is no chance of the conflict.
• Improper implementation of the law is causing conflicts. If the law becomes supreme then there will be no conflict.
• If we open our mind, heart, and communication toward the other person most of the conflict will resolve. When we will be going to prioritize others instead of yourself, conflict eliminates automatically.
• Try to ignore the negative aspect and consider the positive things in your life. It will automatically make your life simple and easy.
• If you change the perspective of getting married, means you will accept the other person from heart. There is no chance of conflict then. Dividing the work of your spouse is the Sunnah.
• To save your relations it is so necessary to sacrifice this is what Islam is teaching us. If you understand others, you will be understood.
• Creating mutual trust and cooperation with your family will decrease the conflicts.
• Despite fighting with any member of the family on spiritual beliefs, try to find logic and gain knowledge about the issue and solve it accordingly.
• If you want an honor in society you give honor to your parents.

Help everyone in the family. Help your wife or husband in their work. Help your parents